For Healthcare & Wellness Providers

A collaborative partner for the nervous system piece — working alongside you to help your patients get unstuck.

Have a patient in mind?

Reach out anytime — Xuewei.alex.li@groundedinside.com

When Your Patient/Client Has Hit a Wall

You've done good work with your patient. The treatments, the protocols, the care — they've helped. But something is stuck.

Maybe they plateau no matter what you try. Maybe their symptoms improve in your office but return the moment they leave. Maybe fear or stress is running the show.

This is often a nervous system issue — and that's where I come in.

I'm a licensed psychotherapist specializing in chronic pain, anxiety, and nervous system dysregulation. I work with the psychological and neurological patterns that keep patients stuck — including neuroplastic pain, central sensitization, and trauma-driven protective responses — so your treatments can actually take hold.

Like many of you, I run a private-pay practice. I understand the value of having time for each patient, building genuine relationships, and offering care that isn't dictated by insurance limitations. I'm looking for collaborative partners who share that philosophy.

Find Your Specialty

Why Providers Choose to Partner With Me

I'm a collaborative partner.

I deeply respect what you do. Your expertise is essential. My role is to address the nervous system patterns that can block your treatments from working — not to replace the valuable care you provide.

I communicate.

With patient consent, I'm happy to coordinate care, share relevant observations, and discuss how our work might support your treatment plan. I believe patients do best when their providers are on the same page.

I understand the private-pay world.

Like you, I run a cash-pay practice. I understand the patients who seek out this model — they value quality, personalization, and results over insurance-dictated care. When you refer to me, your patients will receive the same level of attention they experience with you.

I understand the integrative picture. I'm certified in integrative mental health (CIMHP), which means I understand how gut health, inflammation, sleep, and nutrition connect to nervous system function and mental health. I can reinforce the lifestyle and biochemical work you're doing from the psychological side.

I'm trained in evidence-based approaches specifically for these populations:

  • Pain Reprocessing Therapy (PRT)— targets neuroplastic pain; 66% of chronic back pain patients became pain-free or nearly pain-free in a randomized controlled trial (Ashar et al., JAMA Psychiatry, 2022)

  • EMDR — recognized by the WHO and APA for trauma-related conditions

  • Integrative Mental Health (CIMHP) — trained to understand how gut health, inflammation, sleep, and nutrition affect the nervous system and mental health; helps me support patients whose physical and psychological symptoms are intertwined, and collaborate effectively with functional and integrative medicine providers

  • CBT-I— first-line treatment for insomnia per the American College of Physicians

  • Parts Work (Ego State Therapy & IFS) — for understanding and resolving protective patterns

How to Make a Referral

It's simple:

  1. Share my information with your patient/client — the easiest way is to send them my website.

  2. Let them know what to expect — "She's a therapist who specializes in the nervous system piece of chronic pain and stress. She can help with the fear, tension, and psychological patterns that might be getting in the way of your progress."

  3. They reach out directly — Patients can book a free consultation through my online scheduler or reach me by email to discuss their situation and see if we're a good fit.

A script you can use to introduce the referral:

"I'd like to refer you to a therapist I work with who specializes in the nervous system side of chronic pain and stress. She uses evidence-based approaches to help your nervous system calm down and stop amplifying pain — which I think could really help you get more out of the work we're doing together. Would you be open to reaching out to her?"

I'm happy to coordinate care.With the patient's consent, I can communicate with you about their progress and how our work might support your treatment.

About Xuewei “Alex” Li | Nervous System Specialist

I'm a licensed psychotherapist (LMHC in Florida, LPC in Pennsylvania) specializing in chronic pain, anxiety, and nervous system dysregulation.

My Relevant Training & Credentials:

  • Pain Reprocessing Therapy (PRT)— evidence-based treatment for neuroplastic pain

  • EMDRIA Certified — for trauma and fear processing

  • Certified Integrative Mental Health Professional (CIMHP) — trained to understand how sleep, nutrition, gut health, and inflammation affect the nervous system and pain

  • CBT-I Certified — for sleep-related issues

  • Parts Work Training — Ego State Therapy, IFS-informed approaches

I also have lived experience with chronic pain. I spent 5 years and saw 12 different types of specialists before discovering what actually worked — addressing the nervous system, not just the symptoms. That journey gives me personal understanding of what your patients are going through.

I see clients via telehealth only (licensed in PA & FL).

Let’s Connect

Questions about whether a patient might benefit from my services? Want to discuss a specific case (with appropriate consents)? Interested in building a referral relationship?

I'm happy to connect.